Kevin9679
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Registered: 06/23/09
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Not sure if this post merits its own thread. It probably belongs in my semi-blog thread in the Inner Game section. But I thought this was an interesting observation, and some might agree or disagree with me. But from what I noticed, vibing is the most important part of the seduction process, and is more important than kino, rapport, or even the approach. And anything done that disturbs this vibe just gets in the way of the attraction.
Today I entered the subway and stood face-to-face with a gorgeous blonde in her mid-twenties. She was dressed very classy and looked like she was wearing colored contacts. I was not planning to approach her, and was just practicing opening to the world (as I'm reading Blue Truth right now).
And I breathed in her energy. And I switched back and forth from just opening to everything around me, and putting my energy on her. She was trying not to look at me. I could have easily tried some kind of chat-up-line, but I didn't feel it in my body to do so. So I just breathed her in.
And I heard her breath as well. Its tempo quickened as we rode together. And as I continued breathing, I smelled the scents of her perfume, her juices and her coffee, mixing together, forming some kind of aphrodisiac which brought me to a trance-like state.
And as the minutes went by, she opened her legs wider and wider, while her body was facing me. I instinctively opened my own legs wider, and our hips were facing each other. I was conscious to keep my chest open and to keep filling the car with my energy, instead of focusing on her. We actually weren't that close in proximity, just to throw that in there.
And she leaned closer to the pole (if you don't know, that's what you hold on to so you don't fall down in the subway), and I felt her breath on my hand and her energy travel up my arm. And it felt like I was a male lead in an erotic romance novel, as the both of us started hearing club-music coming from some guy's too-loud iPod.
She kept her breath quick and audible, while I kept my breath slow. And I could feel her move forward and back in tempo with the music. And I surrendered my body to the tempo (yes, feminine but shoot me) instinctively thrusting my hip forward (in a subtle manner) whenever the music hit its rhythmic accent. And I think this went on for 2-5 minutes, before this woman started giving a pant-gasp sound. Her cheeks reddened, and quickly she closed her legs together.
And she stood pensively for what seemed like a few minutes. Then she brought her coffee to her mouth, while "accidentally" (I think it really was an accident?) brushing her hand against mine. "Sorry," she said, and I gave her a smile before she looked away. I looked at her nails, and I looked at her coffee, and I looked at her high-end fashion and her opaque contacts which gave her an aloof look, and I couldn't find anything I was genuinely curious about. There were times when I was sure she knew I was checking her out, because I didn't hide it, but she just enjoyed that attention. And then once she looked straight at me (though I couldn't exactly soul-gaze with her because of her contacts), and I gave her a seductive smile and held it. She then smiled, and blushed, looking down while still smiling.
And it was her stop, and she looked at me over her shoulder before she left. It was only at that point that I wanted to talk to her. I think I could have gone for a number-close without any rapport at that point. But I didn't. But now that I think back, if I went straight for the approach going either direct or indirect, I might not have had the same vibes that we shared.
So what do you guys think? I think that just going with the flow of your body without taking any action isn't optimum for cold approaches, but if you're meeting women in your everyday life this might be pretty sound.
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